Hi, im new to all this and i have so many questions! i am getting an octopus soon and it will be my first, i have done lots of research on how to care for it but i couldnt find anything about whether you can hold them, some people said they liked to be friends with humans and play but does that mean you can touch them? do they bite a lot? and can they come out of the water for short periods of time? THANKS:D sorry if i have pposted this in the wrong spot but since you had an octo i thought you might know the answer to this stuff.